Beginners Guide: How To Give A Breast Job
Yes, we have all done it, or have we? Today I wanted to share some simple tips and tricks to the good old fashion breast job.
Although it can be fun, jumping straight to the act doesn't feel like the most natural thing to do, but that doesn't mean it can't be easy or effortless.
I suggest starting with some foreplay and taking the time to both get aroused. When you feel ready, slowly maneuver yourself into a position where your breasts are level with your partner's penis. You can do this by kissing down their torso, moving down to give them a blow job, or lowering yourself to your knees while you undo their pants/belt/skirt etc. ( you get the idea).
Once you've got yourself into position, you can rub their penis over your breasts and nipples. Next, add some of the lube to their penis (a teasing handjob works great), then place the penis between your breasts and press them together, sandwiching it in the process. From there you should be good to go.
If it feels awkward at first, don't worry. It will get easier as you figure out what positions work best for you and your body type.
You'll also probably find that the penis slips out easily. Again, this is totally normal and nothing to be embarrassed about. Just slide it back in and keep going.
Tips & Suggestions
While a fairly standard practice, there are tips and suggestions to help make the experience much more enjoyable for everyone involved.
Don't Be Scared
The main problem people have always always been the courage to do it, being nervous about trying it, and not feeling comfortable naked in front of their partner. All of these experiences are totally normal, natural, and should be expected, especially if it's your first time or if you're experimenting with a new partner. Anytime we're naked and exposed, trying something we've never done before, there's bound to be some sense of nervousness or vulnerability. The best advice I can give is to relax, have fun with it, and know that no matter what you think of your body, your partner likely feels you're sexy as hell and can't wait to be naked with you.
Don't Forget About Your Needs
On that note, this can be one of the least stimulating experiences for the person offering up the tits. If this is a problem for you, I have the following suggestions:
Get your partner to reach behind and stimulate you (by hand/with a toy – it works best if they're on top straddling you).
If you're kneeling with them sitting in front of you and you don't have any hands free (because you're using them to hold your breasts together), you can try to mount a dildo from above as if you're riding it.
For better clitoral stimulation, try using a product that is designed for hands-free use like Doctor Johns's toys; they come with suction cups.
If you're still wearing undies, you could easily place a vibrator-inside to help hold it in place.
For those with an ample bosom, use your upper arms to push your boobs together. Depending on how you're positioned, you can reach down and play with yourself without much issue.
Have your partner take over holding your tits so you can stimulate yourself.
Try incorporating a boob job with a 69 position.
Lube Is Your Friend
Just like having sex without proper lubrication can be uncomfortable, painful even, so can giving an unlubed boob job. There can be chaffing, pulling of skin on skin, friction burn, and an inability to thrust altogether. The penis getting stuck somewhere in the cleavage. Granted, these things don't always happen, but they can, which is why I always suggest having a good bottle of water-based or silicone lube on hand. You can easily change things up by using a lubricant that cools/warms, comes in flavors (often used for oral), or otherwise.
If you're not planning on engaging in protected intercourse, you can use something oil based (like coconut oil or almond oil), otherwise, steer clear as oil easily breaks down latex condoms. In a pinch, you could use spit, but it does tend to dry out faster.
Size Doesn't Matter (Boob Size That Is!)
Contrary to what you might think, you don't need to have huge tits to pull this off; for those that aren't big in the boob department, I'd suggest leaning forward over your partner while they lay on their back – gravity will likely offer a bit more to work with. It probably won't be as easy as someone with a broader set, but it is still possible.
Explore & Experiment
If you want to have a bit more fun, try incorporating oral sex. It might be a little awkward or uncomfortable for those lying on their backs, and you likely won't be able to deep throat very well. But it's still something worth experimenting with. Just remember to use a dental dam or condom to help reduce the risks of transmitting an STD.
Fun
Most importantly, it is essential that you and your partner are having fun exploring each other's body. If, at any point, you both feel uncomfortable or the pleasure experience is not there, then stop and attempt another position or form of lovemaking you both will enjoy.
